A Man Is Not Dead Until He Is Forgotten

 

 


WHAT I CAN DO - I WILL -

 

Yes, folks, it's that time of the year again ... a time when we all should be remembering those who fought for America. Funny, isn't it, how many people choose to remember our fallen. Nothing says "thank you for my freedom" like a barbecue or a day at the lake or a shoe sale. I can visualize it now ... General Washington taking another boat ride on the Delaware, this time with smoked turkey legs on board, or better yet, other war heroes, such as my grandfather, hitting the stores, since he knows that the reason he and his fellow soldiers fought was not to stave off a crazy dictator named Hitler, but to allow others the various discounts the stores have to offer.

If what I have just said has infuriated some of you, then I know there is some hope for our country, for only those who truly care about America and those who have fought for her would find something wrong with the way Memorial Day (and even Veterans' Day) is celebrated. Then again, we are the same people who realize that every day is Memorial Day. We don't need a government mandated day to recognize all the sacrifices that generations before us have made. I am not saying that a memorial day is not needed ... it is important to this country to have a Memorial Day, a Veteran's Day, an Independence Day, and even a Flag Day. I am just sickened that the way in which these important days are celebrated is not the way they should be. We should be thanking those who fought in wars, we should take a moment to reflect on those who dared to stand up and fight for our independence, and more importantly, we should not be taking our freedom for granted.

In a university speech class that I took a few years ago, everyone was required to give a ten minute speech that was supposed to arouse interest and stir people into action. I chose to give my speech over how and why most Americans take their freedom for granted, and why that is dangerous. I knew beforehand that I faced a tough audience ... my teacher's assistant (who graded the speeches) was an ignorant, apathetic person (she marked off on one of my papers because I used a word, apropos, that she had never heard of before), and most of my classmates were frat/sorority people who prided themselves more on drinking, partying, and bleaching their hair than on being an American. In fact, I believe the Dutch guy in the class was more sympathetic towards my speech than anyone else. It still bothers me to this day that there are many people like them in this country, people who are more concerned with finding a bargain on Memorial Day than they are with remembering our fallen and what they have provided us with.

I quite realize that I sound very harsh, and that I come across as someone who has little faith in the American people. Granted, there are many people out there who still care about America and those who fought to make her a nation and to keep her free, and who do not take freedom or other liberties for granted. However, until the day comes that the (apparent) number of people who know and act out the true meaning of Memorial Day outweighs the (apparent) number of people who really don't care, then I will not rest peacefully. Perhaps this sounds a little severe, but I for one am dang proud of being an American (but an American who is aware of world happenings). I hope the same can be said of you.

 

Copyright Stacey N. Binning 1998 - 2007.